Category Archives: Health

Pre-Planning Your Funeral

By Daneen Cline

Few things in life can make a person as uncomfortable as discussing or contemplating their own death.   As adults, we know it is inescapable; it is after all the natural conclusion to a life that has hopefully been long, happy and healthy.  However, the fact that it is inescapable is what makes the majority of us so uncomfortable.   We know it is going to happen, we just don’t know when, where or how it will happen, and it is human nature to fear that which we can’t control.

While we may not be able to control the timing and circumstances of our own passing, we can be in complete control of the funeral process if we just take the time to make our wishes known through pre-planning.

Pre-planning means different things to different people.   Some people will purchase an Irrevocable Burial Contract (IBC) to cover their funeral expenses and consider their job done.  Others will purchase the IBC and go one step further by making their own arrangements.  They will select their casket, vault and headstone and even chose the type of flowers they would like to have.  Still others will do all the above and in addition will do things such as select the music and scripture verses for the service and plan the post funeral gathering for friends and family.

Regardless of what pre-planning means to you and how far you wish to go into the process, the loved ones who will be charged with taking care of your final arrangements will appreciate anything you do to make your wishes known  and assist them with the process.  It might also be a good idea to work on pre-planning your funeral as part of your overall estate plan with an elder law attorney such as the Cooper Law Firm.

Choosing the Right Type of Care For Your Parent

By Daneen Cline

You have been noticing changes in your mother’s behavior that have you concerned.  You have started calling her a few times a day, just to make sure she is ok.  You have increased your visits from once a week to every other day because you noticed that the house isn’t in the same state of cleanliness it has always been and that personal hygiene seems to be slipping as well.  You know that something needs to be done about this but you have no idea what to do.   Does this sound familiar?  Most of us will face this situation with our parents and very few of us will know how to handle it.  How do you decide what is the right amount of assistance? Maybe having someone stop in every day for a couple of hours to assist with basic housekeeping and personal care is enough, or maybe an Assisted Living Facility is the best place for mom to be.   And how can you even broach this subject with your mother, who has always been very independent?  And finally, can your mother afford to pay for the care she needs?

We are fortunate because we have the Internet at our disposal to help with the answers to all these questions.  We type a few key words into our favorite search engine and are rewarded with hundreds of websites that will assist us with this difficult decision.  Deciding which website to visit is almost as daunting as the problem that sent you to the Internet for the information.  You must be aware that some information on the Internet are not telling the whole story – for this, you should consider consulting an elder law attorney.

The following websites are ones that I have used often and found helpful. They cover a variety of topics including the types of care available, government agencies and the programs they offer, and an explanation of the different types of residential settings for seniors.

http://www.homecareohio.org/

http://www.ohioaging.org/

http://aging.ohio.gov/services/ombudsman/regional.aspx

http://www.proseniors.org/

For more information about programs that may be available to your parent and options to pay for them, contact our office.

Should I be Paid to Care for My Parents?

By Attorney Elizabeth Durnell

Have you ever considered paying your children to care for you?  Have you ever considered being paid to care for your parents?

There is a new trend in Nursing Home Medicaid planning, in which parents pay their children to care for them, even after they enter a Nursing Home.

In 2009, the Wall Street Journal published an article by Victoria E. Knight entitled “Relative Can Be Paid To Look After Elderly”.  Following is an exerpt from that article:

Caring for a family member is a responsibility many people bear. It can also be a source of income.

So-called “caregiver agreements” — formal contracts under which relatives are hired to care for elderly family members — have been around for a while. But with the economic downturn, more families may be open to entering into such arrangements, some attorneys and caregiver advocates say.

Financial transfers made under a caregiver agreement generally aren’t considered gifts, an important consideration if an elderly person later hopes to qualify for Medicaid, the joint federal/state program that covers nursing-home care. The contracts can also provide assurances to other family members about the cost and quality of care being delivered and reward caregivers for the long hours they put in. The agreements need to be carefully crafted, and there are tax consequences.

To an aging parent, the idea of being cared for by a trusted family member may be appealing. And for those who want to stay in their own homes, or need to because they can’t sell their property to fund entry into a continuing-care retirement community, hiring a relative can be a money-saving strategy.

For adult children who have more time to devote to mom or dad, such arrangements can provide a modest source of income — or at least cover expenses they incur in providing care — at a time when many families are struggling.

In recent years, caregiver agreements have grown in popularity as a Medicaid planning tool because they can reduce the size of an estate, according to Louis Jay Ulman, a senior principal at Offit Kurman, a law firm with offices in the Baltimore-Washington corridor. That’s because a rule change extended the look-back period for making gifts to family members to five years from three.

If properly set up, transfers made under a caregiver agreement aren’t considered gifts but rather compensation because they are payments made in return for a service, lawyers say.

Please note the beginning of the last paragraph: “If properly set up.”  There are many specific and complex legal requirements to set up these arrangements.  If done incorrectly, it could cost you and your family time, money and added risk that your loved one will not qualify for benefits as an improper transfer.  If you are interested in learning more about caregiver agreements, it is imperative you contact an Elder Law Attorney.

Disabled Children and Government Benefits: What is so special about Special Needs Trusts?

Do you have a disabled child (under 65) who is receiving government benefits, such as Medicare or Medicaid? If so, you need to know about some important scenario’s that could affect your child’s government benefit eligibility.

In your will, have you named your disabled child as a beneficiary of certain items?  If so, upon your death, you may have just made your child ineligible for government benefits such as Medicaid, as he may no longer meet the financial criteria.   What if someone else names your child as the beneficiary of their will or gives them an extravagant gift if money? That is right, someone else has made your child Medicaid ineligible.

What if your child was involved in a terrible car crash or medical malpractice situation and he or she was to receive a settlement check after they had already been on Medicaid for several months? You guessed it, your child would no longer be eligible for Medicaid.

Without a special needs or supplemental needs trust in these situations, your child will become ineligible for Medicaid, have to “self-pay” the nursing home out of pocket from the money they just received, and go through the whole Medicaid process again once the nursing home, hospital, doctors, and government have taken all of their newly acquired money.  In reality, the money coming to the disabled individual is just going straight in the government’s pocket.

With special planning, these situations can be remedied.

A Special Needs Trust, also called a (d)(4)(a) trust, is setup with the disabled person’s assets by the disabled individual’s parent, grandparent, guardian, or court, and is designed to take the disabled individual’s incoming assets (such as a settlement check or retirement account) into the trust before it goes to the individual. No other person may put assets into this trust besides the disabled individual.  The money can be used for the special needs of the individual (luxuries and care) above and beyond what government benefits provide for such as: Medical and dental expenses beyond what third parties pay for; Clothing; Electronic Equipment (such as radio, recording and playback, television and computer equipment); Programs of training; Education; Treatment and rehabilitation; Transportation (including vehicle purchases); Vacations; Participation in hobbies; Companionship; and so forth. In the eyes of the government, the money is not considered to belong to the individual.  Upon death, any remaining money will first payback the government for the amount of benefits they provided, then the rest of the money goes to anyone the parent, grandparent, court, or guardian designates.

A Supplemental Needs Trust, also called a Third Party Trust, is set up with assets other than the disabled person’s.  It can be set up by anyone, except the disabled individual, and anyone can add items to this trust except the disabled individual.  These types of trusts are designed for times when you would like to name the disabled child as a beneficiary of a will.  They may be used for the same luxuries and care items as set forth above, but at death, the money goes straight to the remainder beneficiaries that the third party named, instead of going to the government.

There are several types of trusts for a disabled person and each is designed to meet a different goal.  While this article only outlines two types of trusts, each trust is complex should not be attempted without experienced legal advice.  Please call or office if we can assist you.  You will need the help of a qualified elder law professional to help you identify your options.

What If You Can’t Make Your Own Medical Decisions?

By Angie Hall

Just as we create estate plans for our eventual demise, it’s also important to plan ahead for the possibility that we will become sick or unable to make medical decisions for ourselves. Medical science has created the technology to keep patients alive longer, sometime indefinitely. So, if an individual becomes incapacitated, its important to give someone legal authority to communicate a person’s wishes regarding medical treatment. The Durable Health Care Power of Attorney accomplishes this very thing. By appointing an agent through your Health Care Power of Attorney, you can ensure that someone is able to speak for you when you are unable to do so. Also, within the Living Will, you can provide your agent instruction in regard to your treatment if you are terminally ill or in a persistent vegetative state.

Keep yourself organized: How to Deal with a Healthcare Crisis

By Jennifer Morningstar

Webster’s definition of organize is “to arrange by systematic planning and united effort”.  I like to think that having a system and making an effort helps keep my cases organized.  And it helps when our clients think the same way.  I realize that many times Mom, Dad or your spouse didn’t tell you where they keep their important documents, their bills, or even their identification.  So when it comes time to help them out in a crisis, you are now in the middle of “Hide and Seek”.

In planning ahead, it is always a good idea to let a loved one know where you keep your ‘stuff’.   There are several documents that you will need in a time of crisis, so why not be prepared now and save yourself the aggravation; you will already have enough to worry about.

Here are some items that you may need to get your hands on:  Social Security cards, health Insurance cards, military discharge records, deeds to properties, cemetery lot records, stock certificates, vehicle titles, bank statements, life insurance policies, tax returns, and any and all legal documents that have been created.

Of course, there will always be that one thing that is needed that you cannot find, but it will make life easier on yourself if you start getting this information in a location that can be found.  It’s pretty hard to win the game of Hide-and-Seek if you don’t’ even know where to start looking.

Worried about taking care of aging parents?

Over half of all Americans say they worry about taking care of their aging parents. Katie Couric says both parties should sit down and have an honest talk about the future.

Navigating Medicare and Medicaid options are mind-numbing and helping our parents live out their lives can be completely overwhelming. Don’t bare the financial burden of your parents medical expenses. A consultation with an Elder Law attorney can help you and your parents plan for the future.

Gracious Dependence: Do We Have What It Takes?

by guest blogger Gail McConnon
imgEvery year medical science comes up with new ways to help us live longer – for good or not so much. We seem to think that’s what we want, don’t we?

But what are we really getting in the bargain for longer life . . and do we have what it takes to graciously accept what we get?

Where am I heading, you ask? I’m inviting you for a short stroll down the road of scientifically-assisted longevity, and the dependence that’s bound to follow . . upon family . . friends . . strangers.

I’m asking you to take a quick look at how “prepared” you are to become dependent on others to care for you while you’re doing all that aging through all the extra years you asked science to give you. You certainly don’t think extra time comes without a price?!

And even if you don’t buy into the scientific enhancement of your years, you know you can’t escape the indulgent lifestyle you’ve been leading all these years.

Let’s face it: If science doesn’t kill you, your habits most likely will.

In any case, chances are fairly good that few of us will make it to the end of our years as the independent creatures we see ourselves to be. Most of us are going to end up dependent – to some degree or other – on the good will and caring of someone else.

Start Getting Acquainted With Dependence

Be it short of long term . . assisted living . . LTC . . with family involvement or not . .it’s going to behoove us to get acquainted the better side of dependence.

What’s that?! What better side?! I’m sorry for the confusion. What I’m saying is that we’ll be doing ourselves a real favor by learning to open the gifts of gracious dependence (i.e., discovering the grace to be gained in being dependent on others).

Okay, you think I’m loopy, right? That’s fair. After all, everything up through life’s first half is focused on you as an individual . . standing on your own two feet . . making a name for yourself . . being in total control.

Now, here I am, telling you the real grace to be gained in life’s second half comes from the inside.

Let’s face it: Unplanned and unplanned for things happen as we get older.

The lifestyles we flaunted up till now are starting to turn on us.

The multitude of stresses we swallowed as we climbed that corporate or professional ladder . . and raised families . . and piled our plates higher and higher with the stuff we had no business biting into a few years back . . have been waiting patiently all this time to teach us the lessons we pretended we’d never have to learn.

Let’s be honest with ourselves, though. Those lessons are starting to come home. And some of us – or at least some of our middle-aged friends and family members – are learning hard lessons as bodies and finances and marriages and all the rest start to break down.

And even though we watched as our parents aged through life’s second half, we kept believing we were immune. Or, maybe we just kept wishing we were immune.

While it is never too early to be prepared, putting things off can have very unintended results that can cause serious anxiety, family feuds, and significant monetary losses. Seek out the advice from an Elder Law Attorney today and make sure your goals and your plan are in sync so you can rest assured that you are prepared!

Nursing homes are not the only option

By Jennifer Morningstar

Elderly manIn working with many of our clients, they are sometimes surprised to learn that there are benefits that help pay for in-home care. Even though a person may need nursing needs or skilled therapy, it does not mean that they have to go to a nursing home.  Home and Community-Based Waivers are programs of in-home and community care, helping those who are eligible to remain at home instead of a hospital, a nursing home, or a facility for those with developmental disabilities.

Many times in talking to clients they are very worried about sending Mom, Dad, Husband, Wife or Child to a nursing facility. With this program, there may be ways to help keep them in the comforts of home.  Let us know if you would like more information or to find out if you may be eligible for this program.

How Obama’s New Healthcare Reform Affects Veterans

HealthcareThis week I have already met with more than a handful of clients and while the complexities of their cases are different, they have consistently asked the same question:  ”how will the new health care bill affect our situation”.  To most Americans, since nothing has been finalized, the answers are still unknown, but the Department of Veterans Affairs has weighed in on the matter, explaining that regardless of the pending health care reform, TRICARE will remain unchanged.  Please visit the following website and check out the attached article to see the comments of Defense Secretary Robert Gates.

http://www.military.com/news/article/officials-reassure-troops-on-tricare.html?col=1186032310810



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