By Attorney Liz Durnell
It is a very difficult decision to move your parent into a nursing home, but sometimes it is a necessary decision. In the story of Leslie and Lois Baum, Leslie Baum exhausted all of her service options before moving her mother into a nursing home.
Following is an excerpt from an article on Cincinnati.com by Peggy O’Farrell entitled “The Burden of Alzheimer’s.”
Lois Baum was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in 2003, shortly after her daughter moved in with her. Before she entered the nursing home in 2007, Lois Baum got in-home care three days a week at an adult day program through Hamilton County’s Elderly Services Program. The program allowed her daughter to keep working.
Even with aides coming in to care for her mother while she went to work, Leslie Baum never stopped worrying.
By 2007, Lois Baum was falling more often. At 200 pounds, she was almost too heavy for her daughter to help up. She could no longer remain at home.
Lois Baum had already set up the paperwork that would allow her children to make legal and medical decisions for her. She had set up advance directives dictating what kind of end-of-life care she wanted.
When Lois Baum went into the nursing home, she had a little savings, her Social Security check and a life insurance policy worth $3,000. All of it was turned over to the nursing home. Leslie Baum put her mother’s house on the market and found a new home for herself in Madisonville.
Within about a year, Lois Baum was broke. Now Medicaid picks up the tab for her nursing home, which costs between $6,000 and $7,000 per month.
Most days, Lois Baum doesn’t know her own daughter.
In the preceding article, Leslie had no other option but to move her mother into the nursing home, however, if Leslie had consulted an elder law attorney, she would have been informed about options that might have saved some her mother’s property. In Ohio there are exceptions that can be used when a child has been their parent’s live-in caregiver. If you find yourself in a similar situation, please contact Cooper, Adel & Associates, LPA to schedule your free consultation.









